Kitty Party

Kitty party is unique to India, at the first instance it denotes :

“A regular social gathering of women in which each member contributes money to a central pool and lots are drawn to decide which member will get the entire sum.”

The meaning above is comprehensive and covers all aspects of Kitty Party highlighted. By all means it is positive without any bias towards any other member.

Not so surprisingly, leading lights have turned the meaning upside down.

This is what Smt Swati Maliwal Delhi Commission for Women Chief has to say *


Smt Maneka Gandhi, Minister (Ministry of Women and Child Development) India, goes a step further and is fully convinced that “All Violence is Male-generated” **

MGOrganizations like NCW & WCD apparently have different understanding of Kitty Party

Let us break the meaning to understand what exactly has been construed.

regular social gathering – It is actually group of motley crowd hell bent on destroying the social fabric of society and nation. They would go to any extent to violate human rights. E.g. no rights to 67% of women in India, all rights only to wife / girlfriend.

women – these mean only disgruntled women, who never had normal life due to their own fallacies & now are hell bent on destroying life of other women as well.

contributes money – This is no way true in India. The funds are sourced from tax payers money of which ~82% is contributed by Men. By the way, underlying objective of Ministry of Women and Child Development, National Commission for Women, State Commission of Women is ensuring that human rights of Men and their family (excl wife) are non-existent. Unfortunately even the children’s rights are crumpled upon by these organizations. It’s high time that child ministry is separated from women’s ministry.

central pool – the central pool is the tax paid by middle class (~82% is contributed by Men). However the same is used against Men and their ilk.

Kitty Party culture has led to creation of biased laws which are acting as virus that has crept in Indian society & working like diabetes and rapidly working to destroy the society.

Hats off to Smt Swati Maliwal for being honest and confirming the widely held belief, that Kitty Party culture is omnipresent & hence the powers of these organizations need to be curtailed. The laws made by NCW & WCD have destroyed the society.



Legal Benefits of Itch Guard


Slightly tricky right. But one would be amazed to find that both are correlated to considerable extent.

Legal system in India promotes Misandry and reduces Men status to that of third class citizen. Laws have been created only to benefit scrupulous women and their ilk. Eg 498a, DV Act, Section 406, 323, 376 & 377, POCSO, Rape Law, Sexual Harassment at Workplace etc. The list is endless. There are many forums which provide more details.

Laws and procedures are such in country that even attending to necessary physical needs will invite arrest and penalty.

Eg : due to excessive heat and hazardous working conditions, Jobs involving menial work like, Coolies, Helpers, Auto Rickshaw and Taxi Drivers, Loaders etc will eventually reach out to scratch. Which is interpreted by misguided feminists as sexual in nature. The same instance would also be done by females if they are working such professions.

Society in general needs to get out of negative mindset towards men. Failure to realise this would mean degeneration of society. Everyone would always be suspicious of everyone else, and it would hamper the interpersonal skills required for harmony in society.

That’s where everyone needs to contribute and be considerate towards that noble person who is making sure that one reaches their destination safely and on time, is ensuring that he takes heavy load of carrying goods etc, irrespective of the working conditions.

Does Itch Guard play a role here ?
My answer is definitely yes.

Need of the hour is to stop making mountain out of a molehill. The world would be a much better place to live and less to worry about.

Life Devasted

Things that comes to mind after reading the headline

1) So sad, that person had to undergo hardship for 7 years
2) Law needs to be changed to protect innocents
3) Why did this happen

If your answer is one of the above, then you are part of herd mentality. Which does not care about happenings in society.

Story in short

Gopal was picked by police and arrested coz female sleeping on platform at Railway Station complained that she was raped by Gopi.
Note the names are different.
Police picked Gopal as his name was resembling Gopi. No reason whatsoever was provided for detention.
Chargesheet was submitted and in matter of 10 months, Gopal is convicted and sentenced to 7 years Imprisonment. Isn’t this strange?
Gopal appealed in Mumbai High Court challenging Lower Court order, High court acquitted him of all counts.


1) His wife remarried
2) His daughters are at Orphanage
3) His Father expired
4) Mother left for Native place
5) Gopal got TB during imprisonment
6) Lost his job as a Chef in a fine dining restaurant (note he is qualified Hotel Management Graduate)
7) Most importantly 4 FAMILIES HAVE BEEN DESTROYED (His Wife’s, Daughters and his own)

Gopal is currently on Hunger Strike at Azad Maidan, Mumbai. His demand is to meet Chief Minister Devendra Fadnavis and present his case.

The effects are more disastrous then what NAKED EYE CAN SEE


1) Gopal can no longer live with Dignity
2) His father expired as there was no one to take care of him in his old age
3) His mother was forced to go to native place as there is no source of income for her
4) His Wife remarried to ensure that at least she is able live.
5) His daughters were sent to orphanage, God knows they did not deserve that. At least their mother should have taken care of them

The root cause of above is due to Misandry (Male Hatred) present in society perpetrated by misguided feminists under false grab of women empowerment.

Had there been a Men’s Ministry this could have been avoided. As he could have approached them and got acquittal earlier. This could have saved life of his Father, His family would still be intact.

Members of Vaastav Foundation met him on 12th July 2015 at Azad Maidan & apprised him of options available to him.

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Whose life is precious

A disturbing trend is noticed in News media since last two days.

Veteran bollywood actress of movie Sholay & an elected MP, Hema Malini met with accident and was reportedly injured. The pictures available reflect injury marks on face. As per news vehicle involved was Mercedes which housed actress and other occupants and it collided with other vehicle.

Point to note, media has covered only news related to actress and is relatively silent about the injuries due to accident to occupants of other car.

The occupants of other car included 5 year old girl child who has now succumbed to injury.

No wonder parents are angry

The above facts narrated in brief reflect biased view about women. Just because actress and MP is involved, due care was not provided on time to girl child.

Roots of this mentality is due to feminist mindset currently prevalent. Which does not give due attention to children.

Actress was admitted to Fortis Hospital while others were admitted to Dausa Govt Hospital. Why such discrimination, had the child been admitted to Fortis, she might have been saved. This brings to moot Question


Biased view is a double edged sword which will bring downfall of society

Marriage Amendment Bill 2013 – IRBM

Objections raised against Marriage Amendment Bill 2013 are available in detail in below link. The objections have been solicited from a group of 40+ NGO’s in India and their views are consistent with the one mentioned in the Link.


Dear Sir,

Save Family Foundation is a part of 40+ NGO Conglomerate, namely, “Save Indian Family Movement”. The movement, since 2005, has been working towards creating a balanced society and achieves family harmony. The Movement has helped crores of Indian Families in past 10 Years and saved many families.

With this letter, we hereby want to register very serious and strong objection to the process followed for the Introduction of Marriage (Amendment) Bill. As per the latest news reports and as per our phone calls to the Legislative Department of Law Ministry, it is understood that the Government is about to Introduce a new Law, Marriage (Amendment) Bill in this Winter Session. The draft bill is to change Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 and Special Marriage Act.

We wish to bring to your kind notice:

  1. This is the same Draft law which never saw the end of tunnel during previous government as BJP itself realized how disastrous this law was for Hindu Family and Hindu Men.
  2. The Bill was struck down by various segments of society and even ministries and got wide International doubts & wrong attention on India’s capability by proposing such a draconian law.
  3. Internationally, in similar law, Property division are purely on individual’s financial contribution to property and duration of marriage and also base on conduct of both the parties. UPA government came under pressure of few Anti-Male Organizations and proposed a wrong bill in haste and later BJP came to rescue of Hindu Men.
  4. BJP realized the threat this Bill posed to both Economy and the Family system as:
    1. Hindu Men would stop buying Property and thus Economy will crash.
    2. Hindu Men would stop marrying thus reducing the Hindu Population.
    3. Hindu Men would be forced to marry their own sisters or convert to other religion.
    4. Husband Suicide, which is largest in India, would increase further.
  5. Previous & any similar Bill is constitutionally wrong as it’s drafted in absolute non-adherence of Hon’ble Supreme Court Guidelines to draft an only No-Fault Divorce and NOT the Property Division.
  6. Previous & any similar Bill is constitutionally wrong as it is formed by inputs from Women Development Ministry and National Commission of Women and thus totally ignores Men who are equally effected by any change of Marriage Laws.
  7. Previous & any similar Bill is constitutionally wrong as it makes the current Gender Neutral Hindu Marriage Act as Anti Male too.

Inspite, of all the above realities, it is really SHOCKING to see that the New Visionary Government, under a dynamic leadership, has taken the same route as previous Government for this Bill.

With this letter, we also wish to bring to your kind notice the CLEAR VIOLATION that Legislative Department has done while processing the new Draft. As per, Pre-Legislative Consultation Policy (PLCP), decided on 10th January 2014, it was decided, that

“The Department / Ministry concerned should publish / place in public domain the draft legislation or at least the information that may inter alia include brief justification for such legislation, essential elements of the proposed legislation, its broad financial implications, and an estimated assessment of the impact of such legislation on environment, fundamental rights, lives and livelihoods of the concerned / affected people, etc. Such details may be kept in the public domain for a minimum period of thirty days for being proactively shared with the public in such manner as may be specified by the Department / Ministry concerned.”

We bring to your attention to this Notification dated 5th February 2014, D.O. No. 11 (35) / 2013-L.I., which mandates the ministry to Publish the Draft Legislation in Public Domain for ATLEAST 30 days and infact notify the affected people. Unfortunately, the current draft clearly violates this very important procedure laid down by the Committee of Secretaries (CoS) under the Chairmanship of Cabinet Secretary.

We also wish to submit to you that any of such procedures of Lapsed Bill are NOT applicable to similar Draft Legislation and hence the Draft which saw widespread Public concerns / panic, cant be pushed again without having passed the Constitutional Procedures Laid down in a Democracy.

With this Letter, we hereby Pray to you for:

  1. Immediately, stop the process of the current Marriage (Amendment) Bill as it violates Fundamental Rights of Citizens in a Democracy.
  2. Issue the Draft for Public Opinion and responses on the Draft Bill.
  3. Involve Stake holders of similar stature in drafting procedure i.e. if there are no Men’s Rights Authority (like National Commission of Men) who are part of drafting then even Ministry of Women and Child Development and National Commission of Women MUST not be allowed to participate in this procedure.
  4. Initiate the process of formation of National Commission of Men involving bodies who have been working for Men for years to bring the equitable balance back into the society in terms of Laws and Law Making process.
  5. Initiate a Parliamentary Committee procedure to relook at the Draft and see if there is a Need of such a law and if it is as per the Guidelines of Hon’ble Supreme Court or being formed under pressure of some interested parties.

Looking forward to your kind help and support and immediate action as per the Prayer.

International Mens Day – Marathi PR

अंतर राष्ट्रीय पुरुष दिवस जाहिर आमंत्रण

स्थान : छत्रपती शिवाजी टर्मिनस, मुंबई

दिनांक : १९ नोव्हेंबर २०१४, बुधवार, सकाळी १० ते सायंकाळी ६

अंतर राष्ट्रीय पुरुष दिवस – जाहिर आमंत्रण

स्थान : छत्रपती शिवाजी टर्मिनस, मुंबई

दिनांक : १९ नोव्हेंबर २०१४, बुधवार, सकाळी १० ते सायंकाळी ६

मुंबईतील पुरुष हक्क समिती “Vaastav Foundation” च्या वतीने छत्रपती शिवाजी टर्मिनस, मुंबई येथे १९ नोव्हेंबर २०१४ रोझी सकाळी १० ते सायंकाळी ६ पर्यंत एक जानकारी बूथ उभारून त्या द्वारे पुरुषांचे हक्क व समस्या मांडण्यात येणार आहेत व त्यासाठी स्वाक्षरी अभियान राबवण्यात येणार आहे

अंतर राष्ट्रीय पुरुष दिवस विषय – Speak Out

समाजाने पुरुषांच्या समस्या व हक्काबद्दल, त्यंच्या नातीसाम्बंदीतील असुरक्षितते बद्दल बोलण्याची व त्यांची मते मांड्याची वेळ आली आहे.

आम्हाला सांगण्यास आनंद होत आहे कि या अभियानाचा एक हिस्सा बनून पुरुषांच्या समस्या व हक्काबद्दल मनोगत व चिंता व्यक्त करून वरिष्ठ नायक ओम पुरी यांनी पाठींबा दिला आहे. पुढील लिंक वर त्यंचा आव्हान दर्शविले आहे

Vaastav Foundation या संस्थेने केलेल्या अत्म्हात्यावरील रिसर्च प्रमाणे अत्महत्यच प्रमाण विवाहित पुरुषां मध्ये अधिक आहे.

मागील तीन वर्ष्यात विवाहित स्त्रियांच्या अत्म्हात्य्मधील १०% घात झालि असून, पुरुषां मध्ये आत्महत्या चे प्रमाणात वाढ झालि आहे. आशर्य चकित बाब अशी आहे कि अत्म्हाय्तेचा कारण आर्थिक नसून कौटुंबिक आहे. भारतात प्रत्येक ८ मिनिटाला एक विवाहित पुरुष आत्महत्या करतो


आमच्या मागण्या :

  • हिंदू विवाह कायदा मधील होणार्या प्रस्थावित सुधारणाच्या पुरुष हक्क कार्याकर्तांचा त्रीव विरोध
  • पुरुष कल्याण समिती व राष्ट्रीय पुरुष आयोग याची स्थापना एका मंत्रिमंडळाने करावा
  • राष्ट्रीय महिला आयोगला कोर्ट चा दर्जा देण्या च्या प्रस्थाव माघे घेण्यात यावा
  • महिलांसाठी असलेल्या सर्व पक्षपाती कायदे उद: ४९८अ, कौटुंबिक हिंशाचार कायदा, प्रस्थावित लौगिक अत्याचार कायदा, प्रश्तावीत हिंदू विवाह कायदा (२०१३) व इतर कायदे समान करावे (Gender Neutral ) व जामीनपात्र करावेत
  • न्यायालयीन प्रक्रियेची गैरवापर करण्र्यास, पुरुष स्त्री हा भेदभाव न करता कठोर शिक्षाची तरतूद असावी
  • पुरुषाच्या मानसिक व शाररीक स्वस्थ्येकडे योग्य रित्या लक्ष द्यावे

Vaastav Foundation या संस्थेने The Flip Side” या नावाची शोर्ट फ्लीम प्रकाशित केली आहे, ज्या द्वारे विनयभंग व बलात्काराच्या वाढत्या खोट्या प्रकरणांवर प्रकाश टाकला आहे

आम्ही पुरुषांच्या समस्यावरील विषयांवर चित्रकला व निबंद लेखण्याची स्पर्धा आयोजित केली आहे

आमच्या सर्व पत्रकार माध्यमातील व समाजातील मित्रांना कळकळीची विनंती करतो कि त्यांनी कार्यक्रमाला पाठींबा देऊन यशस्वी करावे

अध्यक्ष                                                                                                        सचिव

अमित देशपांडे                                                                                                      हुसैन अली

८४२४०३०४९८                                                                                                         ८४२४०२६४९८  

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